The Mom

Did you drink enough water today?

You are the caretaker of your friend group. You carry snacks, tissues, and emotional support in your bag. You give great advice but your own life is probably a mess. You need to start mothering yourself.

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Strengths

Extremely tolerant and warm, a natural safe harbor for everyone

Caretaking skills maxed out, always makes people feel secure

Extremely patient, can listen to and defuse extreme negative emotions

Strong spirit of sacrifice, willing to give everything for those they care about

Weaknesses

Easily over-interferes in others' lives, producing 'controlling devotion'

Always puts others' needs above their own, leading to self-depletion

Easily attracts 'giant babies' who never grow up

Habitually bottles up grievances

Love Style

In love, MUM easily treats their partner like a child to raise. From three meals a day to emotional soothing, they take on everything. This meticulous care might feel very happy at first, but over time it might make the partner lose independence or feel constrained. The dating skill MUM needs to learn most is how to let the other person take care of them.

Career Style

The indispensable 'caring big sister/brother' in the team. When team morale is low, they are the best adhesive. They are suitable for training, logistics, and support roles. But when it comes to cutting the Gordian knot for the benefit of the team, they often can't do it because they are too afraid of hurting others.